Not Just Another Summer: Leading with Purpose, Not Pressure

I’ve been doing summer youth ministry for over 30 years, and if there’s one thing I know, it’s this: summer is a sprint. A really hot, fast, unpredictable sprint. Students are out of school, schedules open up, and the pressure starts building to fill the calendar. I’ve lived through the mindset that if they’re free, I’ve got to plan something. But here’s the truth I’ve learned—just because students are available doesn’t mean it’s my job to fill every square on the calendar.

The goal isn’t to be busy. The goal is to be purposeful. Yes, summer is a unique time to connect with students, build momentum, and go deep—but it doesn’t mean we need to run nonstop. Camps, mission trips, pool parties, late-night hangouts—these things matter, and they can change lives. But don’t fall into the trap of just putting events on the calendar to say you did something. Ministry is more than motion—it’s about meaning.

Here are a few hot takes I’ve picked up along the way to help you stay fresh and faithful through the chaos of summer:

1. Depend on your relationship with the Lord.

Everything starts here. I’ve found that when my personal walk with Jesus is strong, I’m not just surviving the summer—I’m thriving in it. My devotion time isn’t optional—it’s essential. Ministry from overflow beats ministry from exhaustion every time.

2. Get plenty of sleep.

I know that sounds simple, but I’ve had to learn this the hard way. When I treat sleep like a luxury, I pay for it later. You can’t lead well on fumes. Rest is a gift, and getting enough of it keeps you sharper, kinder, and more Spirit-led.

3. Don’t go it alone—use your team.

I’ve done summers where I tried to carry it all myself, and I’ve done summers where I actually let my team lead. Guess which one went better? Volunteers want to help—give them the chance. Delegate clearly and let others take ownership. It’s not weakness—it’s wisdom.

4. Have fun.

Don’t forget to laugh. Play games, join in the messy stuff, and let yourself enjoy the chaos. The memories you make when you’re fully present with students are often the ones that stick the longest—for them and for you.

5. Set boundaries with your time.

You don’t need to be at everything. You’re allowed to say no. Protect your day off, spend time with your family, and give yourself space to breathe. Boundaries are what keep your calling sustainable—not something that threatens it.

Summer ministry can be one of the richest times in a student’s life—and in yours, too. But it only works if you approach it with purpose, not pressure. After 30+ summers, I’m still learning. But I’ve seen enough to know that when I walk closely with Jesus, lead with intention, and take care of my soul, summer becomes more than just busy. It becomes beautiful.

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